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What You Can Do to Get the Most out of Online Therapy

You’ve decided to embark on a new endeavor – online therapy.

Although the online route seems like a perfect fit for your lifestyle, you may wonder if it will have the same effect as traditional therapy.

Be confident that, like traditional methods, online therapy can be incredibly beneficial. Also, much like traditional therapy, the outcome of online approaches greatly depends on how you approach it. Once you’ve chosen a great therapist and have scheduled your first session, consider the following tips to getting the most out of your online therapy appointments and assignments.

Approach It Like Traditional Therapy

Communicating online with a therapist or anyone, for that matter, differs greatly than typical face-to-face conversations. Sometimes non-verbal communication gets lost or goes unnoticed in the digital world. One way to compensate for this loss is to approach online therapy like you would traditional therapy.

This means that you need to be open, honest, and straight-forward with your therapist right from the start. You sought out therapy for a reason, so be accountable to that reason.

Stick to Routine Sessions

When you don’t have to drive somewhere else to attend a session, it can get easy to just skip out. Therapy can be challenging, it’s true. You’ve courageously taken this step toward self-improvement and relief by enrolling in online therapy, so don’t cut yourself short.

You will progress faster and achieve your goals sooner by sticking to a set schedule. If your sessions are 45 minutes every Tuesday at 10:00 A.M. then be there for 45 minutes every Tuesday at 10 A.M.

Put in the Time and Effort

In addition to showing up to your sessions, do your homework. Most therapists will offer exercises to complete at home. Simply said, do these assignments.

Your therapist gives these exercises to you because he or she knows that completing them will help you achieve your goals.

It’s even a good idea to keep either an online or hard copy therapy journal to show your progress.

Work Together with Your Therapist

Every person’s struggle is as unique as they are. What this means is that your therapist is partly responsible for finding a unique treatment that works for you.

Your therapist is only partly responsible, because you hold the other part of the responsibility. When it comes down to the nitty-gritty, you are the one who lives your life. You feel emotions and experience situations and relationships from your own perspective. It’s not your therapist feelings and experiences that count most, it’s yours.

It’s your job to use the online medium to collaborate with your therapist and provide feedback to him or her about what treatments are or are not working for you. You’re in this together, so a team approach is the best kind.

Be Actively Committed

You’ve already made some pretty important decisions in your life. By pinpointing an area in which you’d like help and finding a therapist to assist you along the way, you’ll continue to make leaps and bounds toward achieving your mental health goals.  Recognize that online therapy is not a shortcut. To benefit fully, you must follow through and approach your online path to wellness seriously to find success in your mental health.

Through the wonders of our current technology, mental and emotional healing is possible from the safety and comfort of your own home, office, or any other setting you wish. This is the beginning of your journey, sign on and be well.



Your present circumstances don't determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start. - Nido Qubein